Funerals Article 307

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Art. 307. The funeral shall be in accordance with the expressed wishes of the deceased. In the absence of such expression, his religious beliefs or affiliation shall determine the funeral rites. In case of doubt, the form of the funeral shall be decided upon by the person obliged to make arrangements for the same, after consulting the other members of the family.

How the Funeral Rights Shall Be Conducted – Order of Preference

a) Expressed wishes of the deceased

b) Religious belief or affiliation

c) Desire of person obliged to make funeral arrangement – after consulting the other members of the family

The expressed wishes of the deceased as well as their kin determine what the best way to proceed with the funeral. The presence of the loved one, although deceased, seems to often bring comfort when it's time to say goodbye. Special care is taken to respect the customs, wishes and needs of the families.

The expressed wishes of the deceased as well as the person obliged to make arrangement, determine what the best way to proceed with the funerals. 

At a traditional service, depending on the cultural and religious protocol, the deceased is on view during visitation of friends and family at the service as well. However, if the family prefers visitation and funeral service may occur with a closed casket. The choice is always made by the family either through their decision or through a prior expressed by the deceased.

As a Protestant our religious belief or affiliation on funerals was that Ministry to the bereaved is very important. However there is no uniformity concerning "calling hours", whether the burial service will be from the church or the local funeral home, or whether or not flowers are appropriate. 

It is an important part of the funeral and religious custom to express one's condolence to the bereaved and respect for the deceased by writing a note, attending the "calling hours" if they are held, attending the burial; service unless it is private, and by offering a tangible expression of caring like food, flowers, a contribution to the person's church or charity, unless requested not to do so.

Be sure to respect the wishes of the deceased, his values and any religious and spiritual connection. Be sure that the funeral home is flexible and willing to accommodate the expressed wishes of the deceased to make the event meaningful.